Death, one thing very one is scared off and ultimately attain it whether they like it or not. But when it hits it leaves a trail of memories behind in few peoples life, death makes few people happy and a few sad. Based on their perception bout it. A very ill person in hospital expects death to put an end to his agony will his loved ones expect a miracle and want him to recover.
I for one have always been amazed by death, i mean we all know its the finally gate which we all have to pass no matter how rich or poor, strong or weak one is, for it does not discriminate. It is a salvation for few and a unwanted truth for few.
What amazes me is how it affects a few, all this i saw first hand when i lost my grandpa. Seeing my grandma who always was the most positive person in life turned into a bundle of negative thinker. And she still regrets the death of grandpa saying he left her alone in the big house all alone. I remember the silly fights they used to do and grandpa used to shout and grandma used to be quiet talking to me n i used to laugh and my grandma used to join me.. but since he left us i never seen her smile or laugh.
So is death, why cant you be gentle when you take away someone.
The other amazing thing bout it, the materialistic things which we leave behind. We struggle fight and accumulate things and finally when death calls we just leave it all behind either to be misused or to be wasted. So why fight over small things and accumulate something we cant take with us.
Death should be actually celebrated than be despised or be sad about; i mean come on its like the final test where all that we did in a lifetime is being judged and remembered, the moment of truth where we come to know what we really meant to people we may not be able to know it physical or in anyway cause i mean come on once we are dead, WE ARE DEAD. But our legacy the we treated people the way we helped remains. Which as per me is the biggest asset and that have more value.
Life is a simple journey with difficult choices.
Death is the final stage of the journey where we get to say good bye….
Death should be celebrated for its the beginning of new things for people left behind associated with the dead, we can take it in a positive note as well as a negative again depending on one’s perception.
For me death is mixture of happiness and sadness, few truly miss the dead while a few are happy that a person is dead.
Death leaves behind a trail of sorrow and tears for those who truly cared and thats when we should say “death, be gentle..!!”
In memory of a very few closed ones who said their final goodbyes and let me in confusion and mixture of emotions.. both physically and mentally dead.
Cheers to life