Saying a good bye….

Its not the good bye that hurts, but the flashback that torments the soul. True is it not….

Take a step back n think on it well its the hard core truth. A good bye is the hardest of all emotion.

But everything that kills you makes u fee more alive.Sometimes even when we don wanna say good bye the opposite person insists on it and they go on with there decision. But you still hold on to that person sayin may be one fine day  that person will come back. But is it worth it…???

Well the answer is simple if you have the patience or thought that u can wait then yes definitely worth it irrespective of the result.

Cause anyone can say swim the ocean but it needs real strength to swim against the current. It needs a lot to bear every pain n tests which one will face while doing so. Cause sayin good bye to someone so important is not so easy as it sounds. You will realize it when you have given in your everything into that person. Let me make it simpler, forgetting someone completely is a hoax.

But why are goodbyes so painful stings, well i don know may be it is so because the time spent with that person is worth a lifetime. And those good memories no wants to lose n they want it to continue cause its worth it. IS it not funny that we cling to certain people….

Well this is for all those whom i miss and had to say goodbye even though i dint wanted too…

Cheers to life



Finding spirituailty

God doesn’t exist… Well its a common sentence i presume which most of us have used. Well come to think of it does he really  exist. Well i used to think he doesn’t until all i had was to just look up and say i give up you win god. Yes people, its true no matter how much we ignore the fact that god exists one fine day all will have is just look at the abyss and ask for help with the unseen…

Come to think of it he does exist we just chose to ignore. Well no matter how much one ignores; there comes a time in life when everything one believed is shattered, all the people one had faith in was literally broken at that particular moment we call for the unseen. One may chose to deny it but deep down inside everyone of us does call out to God whose very existence we once questioned.

And that’s when for the ignorant the journey of spirituality starts.  Well that’s how i experienced it though.

Everyone breaks down at one moment in life and he does call for the unseen and that’s ok. Cause nothing  is unbreakable. Well is it not funny when all is going down south we chose to call for the unseen. May be that’s redemption for few.

Well i want to speak more bout it but just not getting the right words as of now so until i get it….

Cheers to life …:)



Is Anger good…???

Lemme get straight to the point, Hell yeah anger is good.

Why so you ask cause anger can turn into a motivational force. Just like how a burning coal runs a steam engine. Based on the situation yes anger is good, it gives you the sheer motivation to move forward and achieve which you once thought was impossible. People might say it ain’t good it will burn you etc, but that’s ok that is their perception. Come to think of it why will some one get angry mostly listening to others and ending up no where right so why listen to any crap they say.

Let the flame of anger guide you and create opportunities. Anger is good when it has a reason and you are not responsible for that reason. Lets take up a example, lets say someone insults you and you get sad or angry. If you are sad that’s ok soon it will turn into anger. Now the next step is to converge that anger and think something productive not violent or illegal…. Once you get a productive goal say for example getting successful.

Next step is to keep the fire burning and not letting it burn you in-turn. How to make it happen well when ever you feel like giving up on anything just remember that raging moment which caused that anger inside you. Let it help you get back on your feet. Keep the goal in front of you and don stop till you reach it no matter how tough it gets. Let anger be your motivation. And remember the goal do not deviate from it.

But make sure anger does not make you a monster, a menace to society. Anger is good people trust me it helps you when everything around you is broken or not upto your expectation. To hell with being calm. Make it worth a while everything you do , everything you feel. Anger is just as good as any freaking emotions we human’s get.

And remember let anger be your motivation for success and not for destruction.

Cheers to life


The Unanswered Question

Not all questions are not meant to be answered ,a friend had once told me when i had asked the reason for the world being so beautiful yet so cruel.

Well that made me think on a different scale as to why do people refrain from giving answers for questions which they know the answer. Is it guilt, is it cowardliness, is it the greater good. Why is truth so harsh that people are scared to tell it.

What i found to be most accurate is people just don’t want to.  Life is all bout choices to many and those many chose to hide the truth. But when the question goes unanswered it leads to a impatient curious mind to start wandering off to the what, why, how, where… does it not…??

But when we go in search of answers we will get an insight to many other things related to the question finally all the collective answers adds up to the unanswered question..:)

Life is simple why complicate it, well few questions are not meant to be answered..;)

Life is a bitch indeed…

Ever felt like life sucks and people around you are bunch of hypocrites and stuff, well wake up that’s life.

Life means many things to many, for a few it is a journey for few its a race so on and so forth but in de end all reach the same destination.

so why am in talking bout this so called life , well am living it so i think i can brag about it in my own words i feel. So here it goes if you are bored kindly get back to whatever crappy thing you were doing and if you are curious then read on..!!!

For me basically life is battle field were every single second matters. It ain’t all good nor bad its just a mixture of the good, the bad and the ugly. What makes it so good is the challenges that one encounters in the path towards glory.

Life’s battle is a collective war between different aspects such as success failure wealth poverty so on and so forth. And we are the supreme commander of our platoon called life and sometimes our friends and family become our allies. But of the day the battle success is dependant on you.

So if you are fallen at this instant in life its ok persevere it cause that is what a soldier does make the best out of everything.

If you are at the every edge of breaking down that’s OK experience that downtrodden emotion cause it aint gonna be there for ever so experience every emotion in life, the heartbreaks, the failures, the success. Savour every single moment of a situation irrespective of good or bad.

Some one gave up on you, some one used you to climb up or some one wasted you that’s all right. Remember that you were strong so people depended on you for there success.

Its all bout perception in life. well that’s what i experienced. Its ok to breakdown its ok to feel helpless. Basically because its life. End of the day everyone dies so why waste it on worrying enjoy it.  Don bother bout what people will think, just remember when you rise from the same pit which someone put you and attain heights the same people who laughed at you will run behind you.  But do remember them the ones who helped you and the ones who put you down cause you have to settle scores with your success with your humbleness. Once you rise never lose sight of the future same time the path you persevered.

Well to put it in simple layman terms life is a bitch, accept it just don’t give up fight on

Cheers to life


Why write

Why write, huh well that’s the same question which I asked myself may be a million times.

Then I found the perfect answer and that’s pretty much simple the answer being I just want too, yes I want to write hence i started this. Life is so simple yet we complicate it at times.

So here i am with this blog. I want to reach out to the world n meet new people exchange ideas and most importantly learn as much as one can

What I plan on writing well again lets not complicate it, i wanna write what everyone as an individual goes through and few dare to express it. Basically it is like an open online diary.

Looking forward to a great times ahead. Be back soon with a good topic

Cheers to life…